Comments on: Having sex for the first time? Here’s what to expect. http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/ College Student Portal Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:48:46 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 By: Cammie http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77351 Cammie Thu, 19 Nov 2009 04:10:21 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77351 Btw we r both virgins Btw we r both virgins

]]> By: Cammie http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77350 Cammie Thu, 19 Nov 2009 04:07:41 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77350 Dear Max Power, I am really confused. Me n this guy really want to have sex. Were both 15. We talk about it all the time. But im not sure he likes me the same way i like him. No matter how sweet he is when we r alone he is never the same in public. He wont ask me out, he wont tell his friends about us. All my friends tell me to just drop him and leave all of that drama behind. But i really do like him and no matter wat has happened i forgive him everytime. Im not sure if he truly loves me n is afraid to show it, or he just wants some. Please help! Dear Max Power,

I am really confused. Me n this guy really want to have sex. Were both 15. We talk about it all the time. But im not sure he likes me the same way i like him. No matter how sweet he is when we r alone he is never the same in public. He wont ask me out, he wont tell his friends about us. All my friends tell me to just drop him and leave all of that drama behind. But i really do like him and no matter wat has happened i forgive him everytime. Im not sure if he truly loves me n is afraid to show it, or he just wants some. Please help!

]]> By: Jay http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77328 Jay Sun, 15 Nov 2009 14:23:20 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77328 Yeah... umm please learn how to speak english... hurted is NOT a word. but anyway, the second it goes in, even if it is barely in, you are no longer a virgin. tell him his dick is too damn big for you at the moment (trust me, he wont mind... he will get a HUGE ego boost) and that you want to be on top, that way it goes at YOUR pace. plus the lube that is on a condom will make it that much easier. all tips based on what my GF said made it easier to her. good luck ^_^ Yeah… umm please learn how to speak english… hurted is NOT a word.

but anyway, the second it goes in, even if it is barely in, you are no longer a virgin. tell him his dick is too damn big for you at the moment (trust me, he wont mind… he will get a HUGE ego boost) and that you want to be on top, that way it goes at YOUR pace. plus the lube that is on a condom will make it that much easier.

all tips based on what my GF said made it easier to her. good luck ^_^

]]> By: Max Power http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77327 Max Power Sun, 15 Nov 2009 04:55:07 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77327 If you had sex, which you did, then you're not a virgin anymore. If you had sex, which you did, then you’re not a virgin anymore.

]]> By: Tay http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77324 Tay Sat, 14 Nov 2009 14:47:41 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77324 Okay so im 17, and I had sex for the first time yesterday...and it hurted! It was painful...I kept telling my boyfriend (20 years of age) to go slow...but it stil felt like he was going fast.. It burned badly...because he's penis was not small AT ALL! He sed he had only had the tip or "Head" of the penis in..and that I needed to let him slowly at more but it hurted so bad..I couldn't.I was so confused about the whole situation...where to put my hands...how should i keep my legs lol..I felt like a rag doll lol So afterwards we tried a ROUND 2 and it felt better..easier. to slip in and out.....He checked on me several times to make sure that I was okay and wasn't hurting...But I lied each and every time he asked..Hes penis was WAY to big...but although his penis was big...i didn't bleed...I didn't bleed at all...and wen i got home that night I checked myself to see if it (hymen) had been broken...and it wasn't it was just pushed back...does that make me still a virgin or ami offically not a virgin..im confused..! Okay so im 17, and I had sex for the first time yesterday…and it hurted!
It was painful…I kept telling my boyfriend (20 years of age) to go slow…but it stil felt like he was going fast.. It burned badly…because he’s penis was not small AT ALL! He sed he had only had the tip or “Head” of the penis in..and that I needed to let him slowly at more but it hurted so bad..I couldn’t.I was so confused about the whole situation…where to put my hands…how should i keep my legs lol..I felt like a rag doll lol So afterwards we tried a ROUND 2 and it felt better..easier. to slip in and out…..He checked on me several times to make sure that I was okay and wasn’t hurting…But I lied each and every time he asked..Hes penis was WAY to big…but although his penis was big…i didn’t bleed…I didn’t bleed at all…and wen i got home that night I checked myself to see if it (hymen) had been broken…and it wasn’t it was just pushed back…does that make me still a virgin or ami offically not a virgin..im confused..!

]]> By: Aravind Krishnaa http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77316 Aravind Krishnaa Fri, 13 Nov 2009 13:15:35 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77316 Waas Superb max. You said that. Many teens go wrong and they doesn't know what to do after that. Waas Superb max. You said that. Many teens go wrong and they doesn’t know what to do after that.

]]> By: Nathan25 http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77313 Nathan25 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:38:35 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77313 Hi. Im 16 and so is my girlfriend. We are really happy together and both want sex. Although when we tried i couldn't get it up. We tried fourplay but nothing. Is this common? and what can i do? : / Hi.
Im 16 and so is my girlfriend. We are really happy together and both want sex. Although when we tried i couldn’t get it up. We tried fourplay but nothing. Is this common? and what can i do? : /

]]> By: Max Power http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77300 Max Power Tue, 10 Nov 2009 23:24:02 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77300 Good for you Lily! I agree 100%. I'm also 24 and my girlfriend and I want to wait until we're married to have sex. You can never regret waiting, but you can regret not waiting. I feel like a lot of teenagers are having sex because that's what they feel like they should do, or because everyone else is doing it. To those people I say: think for yourself. Don't just go along with the crowd. Decide for yourself what you want to do. And don't get blinded by your hormones. We all want to have sex. The difference between all of us lies in whether or not you have the self control to fight off the temptation. Don't be naive. Grow up first, then have sex. Good for you Lily! I agree 100%. I’m also 24 and my girlfriend and I want to wait until we’re married to have sex. You can never regret waiting, but you can regret not waiting.

I feel like a lot of teenagers are having sex because that’s what they feel like they should do, or because everyone else is doing it. To those people I say: think for yourself. Don’t just go along with the crowd. Decide for yourself what you want to do. And don’t get blinded by your hormones. We all want to have sex. The difference between all of us lies in whether or not you have the self control to fight off the temptation. Don’t be naive. Grow up first, then have sex.

]]> By: lily http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77289 lily Tue, 10 Nov 2009 10:16:14 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77289 At 24, I started to consider this topic. I am definitely not in any hurry. The best part is, I feel mature enough to have no doubts at all, and I knew and learned a lot about it to prepare myself, all my questions were answered a long time ago, until 24 I finally feel like doing it. My partner will be my husband, it feels very right to do it to bring us closer, which is sweet. Talking about it and telling each others their history is helpful, which I feel is a must, worrying is the least thing you want to have on your mind when the time comes. My advise, I personally discourage trying this for teenagers, you don't have to agree with me, I am saying this because I think teenagers are not mature enough to really do it for the right reasons, and are more likely to make mistakes, even they think they know at the time. For example, curiosity is a wrong reason to try it, and lack of protection would not be smart. Even when you two are madly in love, but as teenagers, love itself is still a word to be learned, a lot of things in your life need to be figured out. I am in no position to say anything as absolute, people become mature at different ages, I only advice, just hope those young teens can think more, take control, ask yourself are you ready to make decisions really at this stage, and it is always good to put a lot of respect to yourself. Good luck to all the first timers. At 24, I started to consider this topic. I am definitely not in any hurry. The best part is, I feel mature enough to have no doubts at all, and I knew and learned a lot about it to prepare myself, all my questions were answered a long time ago, until 24 I finally feel like doing it. My partner will be my husband, it feels very right to do it to bring us closer, which is sweet. Talking about it and telling each others their history is helpful, which I feel is a must, worrying is the least thing you want to have on your mind when the time comes. My advise, I personally discourage trying this for teenagers, you don’t have to agree with me, I am saying this because I think teenagers are not mature enough to really do it for the right reasons, and are more likely to make mistakes, even they think they know at the time. For example, curiosity is a wrong reason to try it, and lack of protection would not be smart. Even when you two are madly in love, but as teenagers, love itself is still a word to be learned, a lot of things in your life need to be figured out. I am in no position to say anything as absolute, people become mature at different ages, I only advice, just hope those young teens can think more, take control, ask yourself are you ready to make decisions really at this stage, and it is always good to put a lot of respect to yourself. Good luck to all the first timers.

]]> By: Max Power http://www.askstudent.com/tips/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/comment-page-7/#comment-77284 Max Power Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:25:14 +0000 http://www.askstudent.com/2006/12/01/having-sex-for-the-first-time-heres-what-to-expect/#comment-77284 I don't think you're a whore. I think you made a mistake, but none of us are perfect. The important thing is that you learn from that mistake and don't make it again. That is terrible about being molested and almost being raped. I feel so sorry for you that you had to go through that. I have no idea whether that effected your decision to have sex though. I understand that you want sex again, but the important thing is to learn from your mistake. You admit it was terrible. Don't let your horniness blind you to what it was like last time. Having sex with someone you don't know is empty, meaningless self gratification. Having sex with someone you love is so much more. If you continue to have sex with people you don't know you'll regret it, whether that's the next day or years down the track. Although it might be hard, you need to resist the temptation of repeating your mistake. Wait at least until you find a guy who you love and who loves you back. You won’t regret waiting, trust me. I don’t think you’re a whore. I think you made a mistake, but none of us are perfect. The important thing is that you learn from that mistake and don’t make it again.

That is terrible about being molested and almost being raped. I feel so sorry for you that you had to go through that. I have no idea whether that effected your decision to have sex though.

I understand that you want sex again, but the important thing is to learn from your mistake. You admit it was terrible. Don’t let your horniness blind you to what it was like last time. Having sex with someone you don’t know is empty, meaningless self gratification. Having sex with someone you love is so much more. If you continue to have sex with people you don’t know you’ll regret it, whether that’s the next day or years down the track. Although it might be hard, you need to resist the temptation of repeating your mistake. Wait at least until you find a guy who you love and who loves you back. You won’t regret waiting, trust me.

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