Comments on: Not having sex yet? There are plenty of exciting alternatives.

By: alex

alex — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 06:30:23 +0000

am 40 n virgin,,,,,, my bf 30 wanna have sex with me but start from oral,,,,, am afraid it gonna be hurt,,,, n how i can please him get orgasm

By: shay

shay — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:56:26 +0000

well I’ve lost a lot of relationships for not having sex… I’m 14 years old and i really like this guy and i think I’m ready but I don’t think I’m ready. What should i do??

By: Lænet

Lænet — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 23:18:11 +0000

Hey my bf and I have been goingbout not thst long and idk if I’m ready for sex or not I always want and he wants it and I just don’t know if I want it with him cause I’m a virgin and he’s alot more expeirianced

By: Ophelia

Ophelia — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 06:18:21 +0000

Hi Megan,
I have the same problem–in fact, when I headed to the OBGYN at age 18 (I had still never used a tampon), I was actually told I shouldn’t use them. Some girls are so small that it’s necessary for them to undergo a procedure in which the hymen is removed (the flap of skin that covers the vagina). But it’s nothing to be ashamed of… and neither is retaining your virginity past your teenage years. I’m 21 and still have yet to lose mine!

By: Tyson

Tyson — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 07:41:35 +0000

Variations — There are a lot of things you can do beside vaginal / penis intercourse. You can suck and lick his penis, balls and anus when he is showered well. Tease his anus with your finger with jel while you rub his cock up and down with jel. That is a double turn on. Have a small had towel or tissues ready for his cum. You can suck and swallow his cum if you like that.
Get him to rub you clitoris as you enjoy it with gel until you orgasm. Men don’t know about the clitoris – you have to teach them – thery think it is all thrusting in the vagina with a huge penis.
He can caress your breasts and nipples and your whole body – inside you thighs is good. Have fun girls.

By: Nat

Nat — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 17:55:01 +0000

hey amy. im 16 and have been with my bf for almost 5 months, he was a virgin and i wasnt, when we tried to have sex the first time we had exactly the same problem.. we soon realised that it was because i was so tense and not loose enough so now we often do some oral before hand to relax a little.. otherwise you could go straight to it but you could get on top and that way you control how deep or whether or not he does penetrate you. you can keep it in by pushing down on him… also guys find it a huge turn on if the girl is on top.

also my boyfriend said that he felt nervous the first time so he wasnt as hard as he should be… make sure your boyfriend is hardbefore penetration..

By: amy

amy — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:00:15 +0000

My boyfriend and I finally went all the way or should i say we tried to. when it came down to him putting it in it just wouldnt and then wouldnt stay in. any advise i want to have sex but dont want to go though that again

By: christina

christina — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 00:53:36 +0000

i am a virgin and my some of my friends say that it does hurt and then others say it didnt hurt as much as they thought it would and my boyfriend is more experienced then me we haven’t been going out for as long as other relationships have but i like him alot and i think im ready and im not very comfortable with my body (but how many other teenage girls are) but im not really fat or skinny and i have an ass but my chest isnt very big but yeah i just need advise

By: Megan

Megan — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 22:07:31 +0000

I have a lot of trouble using tampons. I have great difficulty getting it in and then even if I do, when it’s time to pull it out it’s incredibly painful. I talked to my doctor and she said it’s perfectly normal and that some people can’t use them. But I’m afraid that since I can’t use tampons, my first time will be incredibly painful. I’m not in a serious relationship or anything, but I was just wondering if it would hurt for someone like me more than it would girls who can use tampons….

By: isabella

isabella — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 02:05:01 +0000

haha i love the chuck norris jokes. well i’m fifteen, probably going to lose mine soon…