Oral Sex tips for Women, Tips for giving a great head
Scientists call it fellatio. Guys who could give a damn about science call it a blowjob, a hummer, a pearl dive, etc. But no matter what you call it, having your partner go down on you is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
Sometimes, though, there are a few snags.
Unfortunately, Fellatio 101 isn’t standard classroom fare. It’s not even something the mother bird teaches its young. As a public service for anyone who has a few questions about the right techniques, here is a laundry list of tips on what guys look for — and require — in a good blowjob.
1.Don’t try so hard. Last year, my friend “Bridget” asked me why she couldn’t fellate her boyfriend to orgasm. My response? In a perfect world of Playboy and porno flicks, hummers lead to big, healthy orgasms. You know the scene: some tramp uses a pogo-like motion to deep throat her partner, only to be greeted by the requisite money-shot a mere seconds later.
Whatever.
I told Bridget to ignore the pot o’ pearls at the end of the rain-blow. Instead, I asked her to think of the hummer as the perfect pre-game warm-up. Think about it…What better way to prepare for the plunge than with a good wand-wash? Do runners break records without stretching? Do writers hand in first drafts? No. Like a good appetizer, I’ve found that a little sucky-sucky before the supper always makes for a pleasant dining experience.
2. Give yourself a hand. Guys spend years refining their “handy” skills before grabbing their first gobbler. And while the hand is neither moist nor equipped with a tongue, self-help is sometimes very satisfying. Therefore, I suggest women use their hands AND their mouths while orally pleasuring their partner. Ladies, the mouth alone cannot provide the surface penetration needed to excite the penis. Cover the tip with your mouth, making sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Swirl the tongue around the head and shaft. Then grasp your boy’s toy so that your forefinger is touching your lips. Using your mouth and your hands in unison, begin the up and down motion. Glance up and admire his smile.
3. Ignore the “spit versus swallow” argument. Some men SWEAR that sperm swallowing is really a test used to measure the amount of trust a woman has for them. I’ll probably lose my union membership for this, but it really doesn’t matter. If you can cause the eruption, you’re a goddess. Draw the pearly white lava and we will worship your volcanoes to no end.
4. Bring the noise. Since “blowing” never really comes into play with a blowjob (well, for females, really), you’ve probably wondered where the term “hummer” comes from. Well, just like you ladies enjoy some good vibrations, we guys like the 1,200 beats-per-minute action, too. As you’re fellating away, hum a few bars from Warrant’s “Cherry Pie.” Okay, maybe a better song. In any event, vocal vibrations translate well to the penis. If you’re a real sweetheart, though, you’ll hum his favorite tune.
5.Don’t get all Hollywood. You’ve seen Kevin Smith’s “Clerks,” right? You remember the scene where America was introduced to “snowballing,” right? Forget that scene.
Obviously, no two men are alike. Different folks take different strokes — not to mention tongue patterns. If you’re really looking to deliver perfect oral pleasure, ask him to guide you through. It’ll open up your lines of communication, turn the sexual experience into a learning one — and give you an excuse to make some suggestions yourself.
Caution Alert
Just because a woman can’t get pregnant by giving head doesn’t mean oral sex is totally safe sex. Though the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is much lower with oral sex than with anal or vaginal sex, there still are risks. To make oral sex as safe as possible, there are a few steps you can take.According to the STD Education Unit of San Francisco Department of Public Health, for maximum protection you should use a non-lubricated latex condoms without spermicide. If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. If you really don’t want to use a condom while performing oral sex on a man, the STD Education Unit suggests a few alternatives.Avoid taking cum in your mouth or leaving it in someone else’s mouth. If you get cum in your mouth, spit it out.Avoid sucking if you have bleeding gums, sores, abscessed teeth, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal.
Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. For fresh breath, try chewing gum or rinsing with mouthwash.
Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember, though, it’s not always possible to see sores or blisters.
Avoid deep throating. This may irritate the lining of the throat, making it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body.
More tips: Check out handbag.com’s article on guide to oral sex
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I do swallow and I am convinced I am the only girl that actually loves the way my man’s cum tastes. I can never seem to get enough of him. I really expected to see at least one girl here that said they truly like it. I find it far from gross, I even enjoy giving head more than receiving! Wow, I really want to do it to him now! Oh and just a tip, he really likes it when I rub the area between his ass and balls
Hey, what’s the best way to practice being able to go down farther on him? My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I really want to get all the practice in, that I can for when he sees me next time. Can you practice on fruit or what???
I love the taste of cum too. and i also hate recieving but love to give and i’m always looking for new ways to spice things up with my man and i. but i totally agree with u on the taste thing. its like dessert
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i’m with you naomi84. i love sucking cock and swallowing….i did the first time i tried!!!!!!
i too love sucking cock but sometimes it can be down right FOUL!! this one time i sucked this guys cock all i could smell was urine, poo, stale cum and ball sweat! this bloke had not obviously had a shower for a few days & farting while i was down there had me close to gaging!! what made it worse was that his cock destinctively bent to the right & was thicker than it was long… he’s pubic hair had out grown his penis! he also had only one ball so there was a hell of alot of skin! he pulled me by the hair & began to “skull fuck” me (as he called it). unfortunately he squirted a big load in my mouth and told me to swallow it or else… it tasted like oysters that had gone off!! it grossed me out for ages and i sweared id never suck another cock again. but now i have a man thats has good hygene & a big nice looking dick and i ABSOULTUELY LOVE IT! I also like it when he cums all over my face and in my hair!!
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StArLeTTe, my boyfriend also likes it when i suck hard and fast and i love to suck his cock just the way he likes but i have been giving head for quite a few years now and was luckily for my bf i was born with like no gag reflex. so if you would like to learn just start off at a speed you are comfortable with and gradually get faster and harder. but of course you must remember that every good blow job involves your hands so try jerking him with a very wet and slippery hand basically the same way he jerks himself (so quick your hand is a blur basically) while doing this at the same time suck his cock as fast or as slow as you would like! just watch you don’t hit yourself in the mouth lol!:)
Teeth and fruit
ya i do understand what you mean when you say your boyfriend likes just a little teeth because sometimes when i’m going at it down there one of my back teeth will graze his penis and it makes him moan. but ealier i was saying it as a general guide line for beginners no teeth at all is safer than hurting him . some guys are very sensitive to teeth and some girls have sharper teeth than others so don’t give him any teeth unless he asks for it or reacts very well to a tooth slip up. but different people like different things when it comes to sex so never be afaid to experiment
also that pineapple juice thing i had heard forever and thought it was kinda silly but i recently have become very ill and started eating a lot of fruit and veg and since my boyfriend lives with me natually he eats the fruit because it is there and it really is true fruit makes cum sweeter one time he came in my mouth and it was so sweet i was like please give me more:D and i already loved the taste of his cum before!!
Hey, if you’re worried about how it tastes, just make sure you have enough spit in your mouth, and take it like a shot. Just let it slide down, and like someone said previously: don’t breathe through your nose.
Personally, I love the way my man tastes, and I have always swallowed. I am of the opinion that us ladies cannot truly expect a man to go down on us (where they don’t have the option of spitting!) if we are not willing to do the same in return. Swallowing and all.
If you’re with a guy that you trust, and someone that you really care about, you’re not going to worry about the taste, but rather how much pleasure they are getting out of it.
If nothing else, fellatio is a GREAT way to start up his engine before sex. Especially if you 69.
I also enjoy pleasing my man and watching him moan and cleanch. Mmm. I love the way he feels in my mouth.
And one thing I like to do if we’re having sex with me on top is reaching back to stroke the area under his balls omg he lovesss it, Makes him go crazy every time!
hii, i was wondering if anyone has any advice for me,
ive given my bf blowjobs a few times now, and he has never cum, and when we do that stuff, its all quiet, not awkward though. i just want something to spice it up a bit really. we are also planning on having sex for the first time real soon
Hello (:
Ive been wit my boyfriend for nealry a year now and have in the last 6 months or so stopped giving him head well stopped him from going in my mouth and i hated the taste of his cum in my mouth buh he loved me enuf to not care. Buh reading this has made me realize that ive been soo selfish coz he always goes down on me n loves me no matter what and him living wit me and sleeping in my bed hasnt made it much easyer on him lol. buh anyways i just wannah say thanks for some of your comments they have made me realize that it dont matter the taste or anything coz i love him and i do love giving him pleasure. so yer, im gonnah give it to him tonight and let him go in my mouth and keep going till he says stop lol i love him very very muchh. =]
Thanks guys(:
my bf asked me for a bj recently but i have NO experience .. wat was good tho was the fact that hed asked me if i would do certain things for him before i did it , like swallowing and such. i havent given him one yet cos theres stll some things i dont get.
he needs 2 be wet, right? so how do u start it off?
would it be ok 2 just gather up a loada spit & let it dribble down him while i suck off his end?
help me !!
hey blahh! make sure you have a glass of water near by so that u have a lot of spit, lick your hand a couple of times so that it is nice and wet and start to jerk him then when it seems like there is enough lubrication put it in your mouth with your lips covering your teeth and put it as far in as you can and bob your head up and down so it goes in and out. you can stick your tongue out as welland move it side to side just try you will get the hang of it
Thanks for the nice and useful information.
when doing 69, it is better for him if you’re on top…atleast it is for me. you have more control over how fast or slow he wants it…and it’s easier to swallow if you’re on top!
i started off not knowing what wuz doing but i wuz wit my first love and he wuz more expirenced than i wuz and he turned me into a tru freak so now im a pro.if u have problems wit gag reflax u should try looking at a sex novelty store for a lil mint called oral sex mint it numbs da back of your throat and helps u completely satisfy yo man.tip for ladies who are not sure about blowjobs remeber:what u want do another woman will.
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Hey FreakyChick(:
uhmm. the time it takes to make a guy cum vairys on different things like, how long its been since he has came, how turned on he is, how well your doing, focus, just alot of things. Its pretty hard to say since i dont know the situation, but i do have some tips, they suit me nd my partner alot, but they might not be your thing tho. Lots of kissing required, gently guide your fingertips all over his body, but dont touch his genetle region! kiss all up kiss arms, his neck and shoulders( i like to GENTLY bit his neck muscles on his shoulder)kiss down his chest and tummy kiss up his ribs his theighs EVERYWERE:) Than tease him lick up the shaft and massarge his testicles ETC, than go as far as you can down on his dick, but dont touch it with your mouth than place your mouth on it and sucks and lick all the ay up. Thats how i usualy get started when i give head. BUT i never have any problem he is always hard when i want to ive him something or want to get something like just a kiss sets him off, its cute accualy
Hope that helped !!
Amber (:
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW I LOVEEEEEEE GIVIN HEAD IT TURNS ME ON TO THE EXTREME…IF YOU REALLY WANNA MAKE A MAN CUMYOU SHOULD PUT BOTH BALLS IN YOUR MOUTH AT ONCE..AND DNT FORGET TO TAKE IT OUT AND SLAP IT ACROSS YOU TOUNGE OR MOUTH SOMETIMES THEY GO CRAZY OVER THAT…STICK TO MY TIPS AD THEY MAY BE CALLIN YOU 2 SECOND CUM UP SOON OR SUPERHEAD JR
K, I’ma jump in on this topic. I’m not going to give the REAL secret, because I’ve never in my life heard of anyone doing what I do and it came naturally so…I’ma keep that one. But I WILL give some other information.
However you can’t force it. Just, keep offering it, or go there while making love. Don’t focus on “making him cum” let him know you just want to enjoy the experience of his member in your mouth…once you get him inside go to work.
First off, all sex is mental. What turns you on is the same as turns him on: THEY WANT TO BE WANTED. So, that’s the first thing. If you’re going to give a blow job and don’t particularily like it (as I don’t) then why do it? Because THEY like it and YOU want to turn them on. It’s a power thing. I suck dick because I like to give the kind of pleasure that is all-consuming. Also, when it comes to sex, I am VERY sensual and it’s hard for ME to make the rhythms and positions and stuff. I pretty much just lose my mind and hold on. Which again, I’ve never gotten any complaints, lol. But, knowing this I like to do my duty and blow his “mind” every so often.
I don’t make oral sex a regular thing. Maybe one out of every 5 encounters I’ll suck it. Maybe 3 times a year I’ll get it off. Could I make him cum every time from oral? Yes, but it takes a long time and the fun goes out of it for me by then. I tear up and gag a lot, and while I deal with these things and just relax and do what I gotta do, once your body starts to REJECT the penis, it doesn’t get better. LOL, so I keep every experience perfectly lovely for him, quality over quantity.
K, so get your head in gear, Next:
Lubrication. Spit. Big, goopy goobers are best.
Then just go to. However you want. Usually you start off with long tongue strokes and short bobs…then you settle in for the swallowing…just open your mouth and go all the way down until your face is nestled in his pubic hair….slide up and as you do so lay your tongue flat and drag it along the length of the shaft. Continue in this fashion and turn your head this way and that to get a sprialing motion.
EVERYONE says NO TEETH! Every man fears this…but in my experience, during that sprial motion thing, your incisors are likely to brush him. I have found that just as I was on the verge of taking my mouth off to apologize at that point (I felt it and heard him gasp) often the man will say, “GOD what WAS that? That felt SOOOO GOOD, mmmmmm.” And things of that nature.
Apparently a little teeth at the right time is a good thing, and what they don’t know won’t hurt them.
Hands…yeah they make the job easier, if you are unwilling/unable or just tired of consuming the whole thing with your mouth. A man will PREFER at all times that you never use a hand, BUT only if you can cover enough ground, tight and warmly, with your mouth and tongue. Most women can’t/don’t do this and thus the hand action is thrown in.
At some point you need a break and this is when you can focus on spots like the balls or the head or a side…and you need to use your hand to keep the stimulation going while you’re taking the breather…this is a good time to speak to him as well.
It’s not always a good idea to get him off orally, as these are the strongest of orgasms and they usually can’t fuck afterwards. I like to use oral for a while, work him up reaaaallly well, as well as myself and then they’re begging for you to let them inside.
If, however, you want to bring him to completion in your mouth, you’ll have to be willing to keep up a pace and NOT take a breather for a while. Just the basic long stroke/bob with tongue action, as long as it’s tight and wet and twirly…whatever pace you set should get him off, you just need to keep it constant. When he is getting ready to cum put your index and middle finger on his taint (That’s the skin between the asshole and the nutsack (or vagina on a woman) )and press moderately hard! He will come like NEVER before.
Now there are a decent amount of men out there, believe it or not, who will refuse your offer of oral sex. Why? They say they can’t cum that way and for one reason or another they are uncomfortable about even just enjoying the feeling without cuming. The fact is THEY CAN and I’ve made several of them do so, much to their surprise.
The secret I mentioned, that I’ve never heard ANYONE use…I’ll give you a hint. Do the unexpected. When you’re bobbing and weaving…throw in the complete OPPOSITE of what you’d think.
Another hint: it’s called a BLOW-Job, not a suck job.
Enjoy the silken splendour of the male member and know that so long as you’re a true woman, who is self-respecting…giving him your best in this way on YOUR terms will impress him despite himself. And just think, it’s something his mother could NEVER do for him! lol
I love suckn dick, I went into a party once Nd
Blew off 5 guys in one night; good dick suckn
Comes over time & ask him wat he wants more
Of, like if he wants yu to go deeper, get wetter
Or watev. But I ALWAYS get my pussy ate by
Whoever dick I sucked..
&I’m fckn pissed how yu left this long
Ass paragraph like yu were writing a
Harry potter book & everything yu sed
Was irrelevent n/e ways
Hannah, You sound just like the ignorant slut you obviously are. Everything Feisty wrote was completely relevant, useful, well written information. She’s obviously a clever, strong, confident woman. You, on the other hand, cannot even spell and write only semi-literately, and have probably never read one of those Harry Potter books you mentioned. Quit trolling.
Um I personally like swallowing the guys cum….I mean it depends on how it taste…majority of guys nut is salty um ive actually tasted a lot of diffrent types…some are very salty and some are juss a little salty….I prefer the less salty ones but hey I can’t complain I’ll do it regardless…if I’m really into it I will keep going untill they nut atleast 2 times….my friends tell me they dnt like doiing…people tell me they onlii do it because it makes the male happy…but I don’t just do it for him I myself enjoy doing it and I don’t even need 4play if I give a guy head because it makes me “ready” just by pleasing him..but all the girls who say that its nasty idk that’s their opinion but i mean it doesn’t taste “good” per say…it has a unique taste I guess
well i read what every one had to say and alot is true, but if u dont like to swallow than dont , just let it drip out of your month dont worrie he wont even see it , as long as he is happy keep going , and yes keep ging til u see is is all done dont stop, let him tell u he is done u will see a very happy man . and deep troating ohh i cant never could tried alot no matter what i cant hats off to those who can and to those who cant just us your hands ladys it feels just as good .it is all in what u and him want just try it u will love it i swear by it.:)
well i read what every one had to say and alot is true, but if u dont like to swallow than dont , just let it drip out of your month dont worrie he wont even see it , as long as he is happy keep going , and yes keep going til u see is is all done dont stop, let him tell u he is done u will see a very happy man . and deep troating ohh i cant never could tried alot no matter what i cant hats off to those who can and to those who cant just us your hands ladys it feels just as good .it is all in what u and him want just try it u will love it i swear by it.:)
as a guy i liked the info. i’m considering going bi and may use the technique this week with a long time friend. thanks.
wow…fag
hey b nice
if you’re are going to be ignorant then keep it to yourself.
hello, i am not really experienced and i wont to do more to m boyfriend cos it always seams to be me who gets it all. i am really scard but i dont no why, even just a hand job. can people give me tips for giving a blowjob please ?
thanks x
personally i crave how man taste especiallly their cum. i went nuts on a man once and actually made him bleed a bit, but we’re still together, i think im going a bit overboard but i cant seem to stop, i just love how he taste can anyone help me
hey emma there is nothing wrong with loving cum but making a guy bleed usually wouldn’t go over well. so if u just remember to cover your top teeth with your top lip and your bottom teeth with your tongue you should be fine it’s the trick pornstars use! but make sure you still use your tongue twirl it around and move it from side to side it will drive him crazy good luck honey!
Hi ladies, sorry to intrude. Just thought you might not mind me throwing in my 2 cents for whatever it’s worth. I could go into great lengthy detail about how to give the perfect blowjob, but instead I’ll just say that if you man likes sex, as long as you open your mouth wide enough, you shouldn’t have to curl your lips to cover your teeth. It’s actually better if you don’t, but we do like to feel your lips on our cocks. It does make a difference. We like to think of a blowjob as a very serious and tense situation, so laughing and giggling causes us to go soft, moaning as if you’re enjoying it will get us hard though. Make sure you’ve got a hold of it while you’re sucking, this helps to excite us as well. I didn’t read all of your comments but I loved most of the ones I did read. Damn, I wouldn’t mind meeting up with some of you.
i have no gag reflex, apparently happy days lol… try vibrating ya tongue on the end aswell…. xxx
Well i have been in a relationship with my bf for 2 yrs. and i gave him oral sex for the first time and right in the middle of it he fell asleep, so im pissed of because i know i have damn good oral skills and i never had this problem in past relationships, so me being pissed off i told him i would never give him head anymore, so im wondering if you could give me some tips or should i not try anymore!
ORAL / BONDAGE : For a very exciting variation to oral sex, get your man to lay on his back, pull up his feet and grab hold of hold his heels from the inside. Then very firmly tie his wrists to his ankles and then under his feet so the rope wont slip up his legs. He will then be spread and helpless very simply and effectively with just two pieces of soft rope. Now you have him at your mercy. His penis, testicles and anus are wide open and very vulnerable indeed. He will be instantly erect !!!! You can now tie his cock and balls in bondage style as well. This will make him very hard indeed. Now men secretly like anal stimulation. With a well lubricated second finger you can drive him wild by gently and slowly sticking it all the way up his rectum and feeling hig prostate glan and massaging it. This is called his “walnut” or G spot. You will soon see his cock begin to freely dribble pre-cum juice. When he is used to that you can try other objects of you choice like dildos, vibrators, carrots, cucumbers and so on. Dont leave his cock bound too long at one time. You can change it. You can enjoy sucking his cock as you try all these variations. Many men fantasize about being bound and tormented sexually. You can stop just short of him ejaculating over and over to keep your control and the tension exciting for him. You are in control now woman so enjoy it !!!! He is your naked male sex slave. It is very exciting indeed and he will love you intensely for being so horny and creative. Dont be shy. Enjoy it. Use a lot of jel up his anus and on bigger objects up his arsehole. It is amazing how big an object he will begin to take and enjoy. My man once took a cucumber 20 centimetres up his cute little arse and moaned all the way. There are a lot of interesting erotic (and cruel, if you like)shaped anal dildoes in sex shops. Some are a row of balls, others ribs and others bumps. The row of balls “pop in and out” as each one goes in and out of his arsehole. They start small and get bigger !!! Watch his face as you do this. It is an very erotic sight for sore eyes. A further turn on is to tease the hole at the end of his cock. That is very erotic but be gentle. You can actually slide a soft tube down his cock but it can make him sore when he urinates for a few days after. Have fun girls.
Some very nice ideas here. I enjoyed the article and thanks for the wonderful information.
Hi i have give my bf blowjobs but everytime he comes is because he helps me i mean i get tired y mouth hurts because i have to put it on the O position, so he always usually says like let me do it so that i can come faster, and it frustrates me cause i want to make him come by myself and i cant see to find the way, someone please help me
Hi i have give my bf blowjobs but everytime he comes is because he helps me i mean i get tired y mouth hurts because i have to put it on the O position, so he always usually says like let me do it so that i can come faster, and it frustrates me cause i want to make him come by myself and i cant see to find the way, someone please help me!
Hi i have give my bf blowjobs but everytime he comes is because he helps me i mean i get tired y mouth hurts because i have to put it on the O position, so he always usually says like let me do it so that i can come faster, and it frustrates me cause i want to make him come by myself and i cant see to find the way, someone please help me
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Getting tired or worn out while giving a blowjob is a common thing, it happens. Don’t feel bad, or get upset. And don’t go into it thinking, “Omg, what’s the point? I’m just gonna get worn out and he’ll finish himself.” – That’s a big no no. You’re not going to have any fun that way, it just won’t work. Make sure you’re absolutely comfortable. Get in a position that will work for YOU. He’s gotta be comfortable as well, but you’re the one doing the work here. If you’re kneeling down in front of your man, in between his legs, try using a pillow or something else soft to cushion your knees. If he’s laying down, have him prop himself up a little, it helps. Personally, when I do it, I have my man sit in a chair and I kneel in front of him. Use both your mouth and hand while you’re working on your man’s penis!! If your neck starts to give out on you during, try switching to just your hand. Kiss him while you’re doing this, or maybe show his balls a little love with your mouth. The same thing goes for when your mouth gets tired of making that ‘O’ shape, switch to your hand, give your mouth a little break. It really does help, I promise! And the next time you go to give him a blowjob, don’t let him help. He may just want to get off really quick, but he’ll enjoy it even more when you’re the one who gets him to cum, and so will you. You’ll feel better about yourself and your ability to please your man. He’ll find out that it was worth the wait, trust me.
Practice makes perfect! The more you do it, the better you’ll get. You’ll eventually learn what he likes and doesn’t like. And after you’ve done it for a while, you won’t get as tired.
Hope this helps!!
I Love sucking dick! Omg! It soooo turns me on. It turns me on even more for a guy to moan , it lets me know im doing a good job. Mmmm… If you are into your man then you want that cum and it tastes good! A nice big cock swirl your tongue around the head while jerkin him off. Massage under his balls! Omg!
i was terrified the first time i gave my boyfriend a bj because he had never had one before and i had never given one before but i quickly learned how to drive him wild… practice makes perfect but there are a few things that absolutly drives him wild:
rub the tip of his penis on the roof of your mouth lightly, the ridges will drive him wild
also …tease him! kiss his thighs and the area around his penis very lightly and just breath the hot breath will turn him on… ; )
also…i have a very sensitive gag reflex so when i need a break… i lick his balls and gently suck them or lick the area right under them
if you arent sure what speed to go at grab his hand and put it on your head or around your hair and guide his a few times to let him know you want him to push your head down… and if he gets too carried away just stop and laugh it off
most importantly… confidence is important… dont be embarrased to do this even if he watches you. Alot of men say the it is a turn on to see themselfs being pleasured …
once you get skilled enough try with no hands… put your hands on his hips and go to work
he will absolutly love it
Damn near every time I read an article like this I come across the same thing, no teeth. I think that’s really a matter of what the guy enjoys and what he’s comfortable with. My fiance LOVES it when I use my teeth while sucking him off. Nothing too crazy, mind you.. I just barely graze them along his shaft here and there and it drives him wild. Sometimes, if I’ve really got him going, he’ll ask me to bite down gently. Found that one out by accident, actually. But, like I said, it’s a matter of opinion and what he’s comfortable with. Don’t just go biting on the thing, it’s not a chew toy.
He also really enjoys it when I use my mouth and hand at the same time, both in the same rythym. Sometimes, when my neck gets a little tired, I’ll switch to just my hand and give my neck a break while we kiss. He likes that a lot, too. I’ve found that the more spit, the better. Any guy I’ve ever given a blowjob to really liked a lot of spit when my hand (or hands) was involved. And moaning, OMG, my man reeeeeally loves that. The vibrations are wonderful for him and he’s told me the sound of my moans when blowing him really turns him on. I’ve also found that eye contact does wonders, for both you and the guy.
As far as swallowing goes, I like it. At least, now I do. I wasn’t into it so much before I got with my fiancee.. but with him, it’s incredible. When it comes down to the choice, do what you feel the most comfortable with. If you don’t want it in your mouth, finish the job with your hand. If you don’t mind having cum in your mouth, but you don’t want to swallow it, let the cum drip out of your mouth and onto his penis and swirl it around with your tongue and/or hand right there at the end. For some reason, any guy I’ve ever done this with told me it drove them wild, especially with my fiancee. I guess guys just really like it when they see their dick and/or cum in your mouth. But, most importantly, don’t let them force you into swallowing if you don’t want to. Like the article says, if you can get the job done, they’ll love you for it whether you swallow or not.
i think goin down on a man its great n it makes me feel good n more horny:”"”
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I want to know how a prostitute does oral sex in a car. How long does it really take? Aren’t prostitutes trying to get it over with quickly and move on to the next man. Isn’t it all about speed and money. From the time prostitute gets in mans car and actually starts to do it, how long does it take? Also when the prostitute gets in car and they go wherever to park and do it, what happens first? Does prostitute take total control and take mans penis out and do what first? I must know all of this from how the man gets her, to her getting in car, then when does he pay her and how much. Does she just spit out window or in a napkin or what? Does she clean her mouth and hands before another man and where does she do it if she’s on the street? Does she carry water or mouth wash or what. I need to know everything . Do they talk to each other or just hurry and get it done so she can move on to next man. Isn’t it all about money? Do they kiss,oh God, I hope not. Please , I must know all. If there is a prostitute out there , please write me and tell me blow by blow. No pun intended. Thanking you A.H.
uhhm..why do you need to know all about prostitutes annie?
A tip for women: Sometimes as a special treat for your guy, let him ejaculate on your face. It is a HUGE turn-on, trust me! If you DO let him do this, don’t get all drama and “wierded out”. Just act like you are totally turned on by this. I GUARANTEE, anything you want from your guy, you’ll get it.
hi i am 21 years old and still have my v-card. theres this guy who wants to have sex with me but i know he is really experienced and i am afraid i wont do somethin right. i am a little embarrassed to be asking this question so dont laugh… i know that he wants me to give him a bj and i really dont know how to do that… yeah i read the article but i but think its the sex itself that is scaring me. i think its the guy and wut he thinks. i want to get it over with but then im afraid he will not like it help!
Well, don’t be afraid! I’m 21 years old as well and I started having an active sex life the very same day I turned 18. I remember I was panicking when I first so my boyfriend nude, didn’t really know what to do with “it”, but I decided to go ahead and just use my logical thinking, hehe, I asked myself “If I were a guy, what would I want to feel?” And I started from there; to give him a good bj, start by masturbate him slowly (moisture your hand if you feel you need it) and when you are ready, put it in your mouth and do the same movement you are doing with your hand, don’t stop the hand though! Do it at the same time, twisting a bit the hand, to move in circles; bite the tip very gentle, take your tongue for a walk over his entire penis; shake it with your hand and make it rest in your mouth… Anyway, be creative, just imagine you had one of those!! And when he comes, it will all be worth it, nothing better than a man’s face when he’s coming.
I hope i helped a bit!! Let me know how it went.
so my boyfriend and i have had sex a few times before but now I want to give him bj now that he says he’s comfortable with oral sex. but the problem is, i’m totally lost. i read the article but i’m still lost. i don’t know how to start. and he also takes a REALLY REALLY REALLY long time to cum and i’m not sure how to help it along. HELP!
hey annie,
most prostitutes get the money from the guy before they do anything for him. almost everyone uses a condom. they like to get it over with as fast as possible. sometimes he’ll pull his dick out, and sometimes she’ll do it for him….that part doesn’t matter. they women just need the money so they don’t waist time getting to know the guy. they usually go somewhere where they know the chances of getting caught are slim.
Hi I am a meal and I have a question to you ladies and I hope someone can give me the right answer
I know my girl for over 5 years now and she love sucking and licking me, she started swallow my cum and I never force her to do that, she done it her self, but I think she hate the lumpy cum coming out of me, I asked her why ??? She said she never experience that with the 7 x boyfriend and I am the only guy have do it. She still wallow my cum and I know she like it but I don’t know why sometimes she complain abut the lumpy bits
When i give head a guy really likes when i suck on his tip really hard then play around with it my tongue but i wanna find out new tricks so next time i give head i keep them wanting more….which i do now not sayin i don’t….but it really turns me on when so when were about to have sex im already ready to go so yea…and compliments help out too that makes you want to do better or something new the next time.
try deep throating once you’ve played with his head. and always play with his balls
Hey i have a friend who didn’t at first like to get head so i said i would try it on him. He really enjoy it but the thing was it’s so different from now then it was when i was first giving it to him because i didn’t have a tongue ring at the time. For all those that don’t have one get it please it will drive your spouse crazy i change mines each time i give him oral sex like this one i have it has a dick on the top of it cool……I know but it’s like i be trying to deep throat but cant stop gaging any tips anyone
I want to give my boyfriend head but there are a couple of problems. One, I have REALLY REALLY REALLY strong gag reflexes and I’m terrified of throwing up on him. and two, I have insanely sharp fangs and I’m really scared of catching them on him because they would cut him. I don’t know what to do!
tomorrow is my birthday, and my boy friend keeps talking about me giving him head (which i have never done before) and i’m pretty sure things are going to lead in that direction. he just got a new car, and i was wondering if giving him head in a car is a good/bad thing?
also, reading all the other comments have helped me tremendously, but i’m still a little nervous.
any help? i’m mostly just worried about what it’s going to be like afterwards, and if i do something wrong.
thanks,
Carly.